Can't we all just get along...
Can't we all just get along...
I'm sort of a bitch when it comes to the bf's family, they are the tackiest people I have ever known. they don't have any manners what so ever, how is it that he is the ripest apple out the bunch? I don't understand. i have had so much bs bottled up inside against this bunch, im about to bust. they are so disrespectful its terrible! i dread having his child because i absolutely don't want my child around that mess. we take the dog to visit sometimes and he's always being fed human food, which is why we are having trouble getting him to eat his own food. i am stressed out because i simply can't stand to be around these folks.
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Liz Carine
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Post a CommentThat does not bode well...... I would go process this in counselling, for your own sake, since it sounds like you are thinking about the future.....
i agree, that sounds like a tough situation that isn't going to go away any time soon.
i think you need to discuss your concern in a nice way to you boyfriend about his family.But be careful how you word it. Especially bring up rules with the dog when they are around him.
He does'nt want to hear it!
Hi cinadanni24, I just saw this group and joined-great timing, too...
Reading your comment above- maybe you can talk to someone about it, meaning a therapist. Friends/family mean well, but tend to side with their friends, or it makes us mad when they don't...They say you can't change anyone, but you can change how you perceive them.
I can relate to having an issue within a relationship (bf or kids/family) and getting nowhere with it. It really suc*s. We want to find a fix for the problem, not go round and round with it only to end up without a proper ending/fix/cure yet again. Frustration overload!!!
When it comes time for children to enter the picture, you can limit your time with them, be there at all times with your child to make sure (s)he's safe, move away, choose another mate,
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Best of luck!
I agree, when it comes to the children then I would limit my time even more with them. Who knows what problems they would want to cause when it came to them. I wouldn't want the drama. So again, limiting that time is a must. Best of luck for now!
A friend of mine married a guy that she thought was the exception to the family. They are divorced now. After they married she seen the traits the rest of the family exhibited. She dated him for a few years before marrying his so not sure why it took so long for her to see. But...proceed with caution. When you marry the man you get his family too.
You said you dread having his child are you currently pregnant? if not which guy in your lifetime have you ever regretted not having a child with or have the desire to marry and start a family with.He must be a one of a kind type of guy.
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